Keep Ya Head Up

What To Do When You Are Surrounded By Annoying People

Have you ever just been through? All you wanted to do was go and be by yourself somewhere because it seemed like everyone around you was a complete idiot? Or just plain incompetent? If you're being honest with yourself then the answer to that question is yes, and if you're not being honest....maybe you should think a little harder. Maybe you should think of those group projects that you never wanted to be in or that obnoxious college roommate who lives just to make you miserable. I'm not saying to wallow in self-pity or to stay angry and upset for ever, but it's always best to address a problem. Ignoring problems don't make them go away.

So instead of ignoring it, remind yourself that it's not going to last forever and God would never put more on you than you could bear. Which is why I always listen to I Can Bear by S.O. when I get a little anxious or upset. It reminds me that no matter what I'm going through I will get through it and I'm never alone on the journey. So when there are annoying people wherever you turn confront the situation. You do not have to go and yell or start a fight, handle it calmly in what ever way suits you. If you're a writer, write about it; an athlete? go play a game or match; a comedian? tell a joke or two. But do whatever it takes to calm you down and then go face those annoying people and let them know that what they are doing is upsetting you. No problem was ever resolved by doing nothing.

There's always going to be annoying people around you so what you should do is stay on ten.Don't let anyone take your joy away from you because if you do then you let them win. Don't let them take you out of yourself and have you do something you normally would not because then they have proven their point. It's time to prove yours: No matter what you do to me, you can't take my JOY! On-Ten Tedashii!!!!